Sticky Frameworks, Life After Metrics, & Resilience: booking 2026 workshops

The Readiness Trap

Waiting to feel perfectly ready before starting, when starting is what creates readiness

"You don't get confident by waiting—you get confident by starting."

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💬 Soft Skills

When Identity Complexity Makes it Harder to Perform

How to Avoid Choking: Performing as a Neurodivergent Queer Female Edition

What works for others might be useless for some. Why is performing more difficult with complex personalities? And what advice should you give when you've got conflicting input?

🪞 Seeing the System

The Cumulative Impact of Having the Wrong Name

If readers and editors took me 10% more seriously, how much would that add up over time?

🪞 Seeing the System

Taking 51% of the population less seriously over time leads to a cumulative disadvantage.

Where are all of the female authors and thought leaders?

It's not just one thing that makes a difference—it's a lifetime of small differences that accumulate and get under the skin.